I was about ready to give up on mine too. I had to get at the condenser to replace it. I had lost spark in one cylinder.
Anyways, after bending the bolts I realized I had the puller backwards. Once I put the flat side of the puller facing out, I tightened it by hand as tight as I could get it without breaking something, stood back, swore a little, then lit a cigarette. I then tightened one of the bolts maybe 1/4 of a turn. After sitting there looking at it for a few minutes it "popped" off by itself. I made sure that the bolts were all lined up good and of equal distance to the stator. I guess it took that much sustained pressure on it.